Who Wants to Play?

[why_me_why_not]

It's been a while since we had a good game of Truth-or-Dare. So, who wants to play?

Basic rules:

01. Reply with a comment and I'll tell you which one I want, either truth or a dare. Dares should pretty much stay within my LJ, and not be anything that will get us reported to LJ Abuse.

02. I either answer the truth or perform the dare.

03. In return, I get to ask you "Truth or dare?"

Some of you have played before; I think last time a majority of the dares ended up being fic dares. Which I only just recently finished. *deliberately ignores the fact that there's one left outstanding from a non-official tod game in one of the comment parties* Other examples of dares include things that have to be left in comments, things with associated flists (like go to my flist & comment on three different journals of people you don't have friended), pic spams, posting pics of something (myself, my pets, the ceiling in my bedroom), the list goes on and on...

And, some of you remember that I avoid answering Truth. But, b/c I love you guys & I'm feeling adventurous, if you want to hit me with a Truth and a Dare, I'll do both. Luckily, this isn't a magical Truth or Dare game, where we'd me obligated to do the dares or else (Naked Quidditch Match, anyone?) but please play with me? Especially some of my non-HP flisters; y'all are way too quiet!!

Comments

[wendy.livejournal.com]

As you requested ma'am!

[why-me-why-not.livejournal.com]

Yay! I avoid the truth if given a choice, so Dare me? And how about you? Truth or Dare?

[wendy.livejournal.com]

OK, I dare you to...post a picture of your sexiest undies. (You don't have to be wearing them.)

I'll take truth this time to warm up.

[why-me-why-not.livejournal.com]

But what if I don't wear undies?!

Okay, I'll put that on my list but I can't do it until the morning, b/c I don't have a camera here. But I WILL do it.

Truth -- If you could meet one person on your Flist in RL (someone you haven't already met), who would you meet and what would you do?

(okay, so I'm really lame at coming up with truths and dares; it takes me a bit to warm up *g*)

[wendy.livejournal.com]

I already know I'm going to get to meet a bunch of people I'm *dying* to meet at Lumos, so I'll pick someone I know won't be there.

wikkidpixie has been my LJ buddy for years and years. We're super close and she's been with me through a lot. Just today we were discussing that we want a slumber party with pizza, margaritaa, porn and gossip. So that's who I'd pick and what I'd want to do.

OK, so what happens now? lol

[why-me-why-not.livejournal.com]

Aww, that's cool. Sleepovers with pizza, margaritas (OMG YUM!), porn & gossip are fantastic! I'm not going to LUMOS. *pouts* I wanna meet people, dammit!!

we can go another round, if you want. Truth?

[wendy.livejournal.com]

Truth...what's on ething you could change about your life right now to make it better, and why aren't you doing it?

[why-me-why-not.livejournal.com]

God, Wendy, you're making me think! And most of it's not happy thoughts! One thing that I could change about my life to make it better? Honestly? (this is why I hate truth) Quit hiding behind the act that I'm okay, b/c I'm not, and I'd love to be able to have someone to lean on but that would require me opening up to someone and that's just a world of disaster. I pretend I'm happy but there's actually no way for me to be when I refuse to think of the first twenty years of my life at all. Why am I not doing it? B/c I'm scared to death of it and I've gotten used to pretending. (thanks, girl! I'm sure that's not the type of answer you were expecting, but there it is anyways)

[wendy.livejournal.com]

Actually, I ask this question of everyone eventually and about half answer almost exactly that way. (A third answer with some variation of "I'd leave him" and a third give blow off answers.)

I aodre you and it takes courage to be honest, so thank you for that. *loves*

[why-me-why-not.livejournal.com]

I left my ex. Even though it took me for-freaking-ever to actually do it, it was the best move I ever made. I spent five years pretending to be what I thought he wanted, which totally didn't help me deal with the shit that made me susceptible to him in the first place. But yeah, I can totally empathize w/ people who say "I'd leave him" but have reasons why they're not.

I aodre you and it takes courage to be honest, so thank you for that. *loves*

Awww, thank you!! It does take courage to be honest; it's not a trait that comes as naturally as everyone thinks. I ♥ you!

[why-me-why-not.livejournal.com]

Oh, or you can go through my comments and hit someone else up with a truth or dare *g*

[wendy.livejournal.com]

OH! I didn't realize I got to pick on meet other people too!

[why-me-why-not.livejournal.com]

lol -- we didn't do that last time, but it seems like a fun thing to do. Plus, yeah, getting to know other people is always fun. *g*