February 6

Feb. 6th, 2021 04:12 pm
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States Bound! The SHS Wrestling team has 8 kids headed to states, and 5 alternates! Despite everything, I can't help but be super proud and super excited! I miss the chaos of wrestling seasons and tournaments, but it was nice to be able to watch the regional matches via youtube while I was in bed in my jammies today. No pre-dawn drives, no large crowds, no running back and forth from one mat to another, no utter exhaustion afterward. States is in two weeks, no spectators allowed. It's weird, but everything is now. And one of this year's seniors already signed to Roanoke College with a wrestling scholarship, so that's awesome.

I realized today one of the things that's been bothering me about the school arguments. The pandemic is highlighting issues with schools in general, and disparities in school districts, and underfunding, and all kinds of stuff. I am 100% behind teachers and parents not wanting to return to school without feeling safe. Most districts cannot do this. But what was throwing me is that I support my school district being in-person and at the same time think being back to in-person school is Not A Good Thing for most places. I think I sorted it out in my head now though.

Salem (where my kids went, where several of my littles go now) has always been extra. They have always put priority on their school system, which is one of the reasons I paid for my kids to stay there after we moved out of district. Even before the pandemic, they had generally smaller class sizes - elementary school classes tried to stay under 15 kids per classroom, middle/high schools no more than 20 or 22 for classes other than specials (band, choir, ece, the auto classes, etc, all had more than that, I think). So when they needed to make smaller classes to meet guidelines for social distancing, etc, it was easier. Salem teachers are also better paid than others in this area, and even though the teachers obviously pay out of pocket for stuff (like all teachers) they get supplied more than others. For example, most teachers I know in other districts have limited numbers of copies available to them per month or whatever. One of the community businesses in Salem covers all copy costs for the schools - supply the copiers, provide the upkeep, donate paper and toner, etc) so the teachers, admin, ptsa all have unlimited copies. The community had several organizations donate cleaning supplies and stuff to the schools (apparently there are school districts where the teachers had to supply their own supplies to keep their rooms clean and sanitized? that baffles me), one donated masks for all the students and staff, the ptsa organized for all the students to get reusable water bottles and provided a stockpile of bottled water for each school since the water fountains are off limits. Salem is small, like 15 square miles, so there is internet/wifi everywhere. Students who are partial or completely distance learning have school provided chrome books. Salem opened schools in September. All families were given the option of full online learning. For in-person, preK-2 go 5 days per week until 1:15. Some kids have IEPs so they have a special schedule, like Illy, who goes Mon-Thurs until 1:15. Grades 3-12 go two days a week (either Mon/Thurs or Tues/Fri - until 2:15 at the elementary school, to stagger the buses) and have online assignments the other days. There have been a few instances of COVID (contracted from an outside source), but for the most part, it's worked well. But I KNOW this model doesn't work for everyone, and Salem is so so lucky it works for them.

Anyway.

Have a link to read I found interesting this morning: The Strange Blissfulness of Storms

and a handful of small fic recs )
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Both girls are sick and it's driving me a little bit bananas.

Wrestling season is over. Idk if something is wrong with me because I didn't spend the weekend full of tears like the other moms? I mean, I'm sad for Davey that he didn't get a medal, and it's always strange a little sad to close the chapter on part of our life, but all the crying seemed a little excessive. Idk. Davey placed fourth at regionals and didn't make it to day 2 of states, but he's worked hard all six years of wrestling and he's made great friends, and our wrestling family is fantastic.

Davey decided that he wants to commit to Bridgewater for college, which is exciting and also terrifying. I've built my life around being their mom, and he and Ronnie are grown now, and it's all weird.

I had the flu and several severe multi-day migraines, so I feel like I have accomplished nothing this month. It's blargh. I'm also overdue for visits to all my health care providers, but I can't do anything for myself (including important stuff like doctor visits) because I'm too busy dealing with everyone else. Mom's chemo, daddy's dr appts, Illy and Luna being sick. It's a lot.

I'm supposed to be at church right now working on stuff for Ash Wednesday (tomorrow) but I'm not going to drag the girls with me, and we're down to one car right now, so idk how I'm going to get things done. Also, my head hurts. I guess I should probably see what I can get done from home.
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Tournament Weekend! Yay! Except, not so much yay.

We've had a couple dual meets and two tournaments before now. Davey went 4-1 the first dual, missed the second b/c of a nasty virus, placed 4th at the first tournament and 3rd at the second. But, one of the kids he wrestled the first week quit. (He specifically said he didn't want to wrestle Davey again, even though that's not why he quit.) One of the kids the second week ended up on the injury list because wrestling with Davey aggravated a previous cracked rib injury. Third week, Davey broke a kid's leg. Not on purpose or anything, they got tangled up and when they fell, the kid's leg got caught and snapped - I swear, I'm going to have nightmares about it for ages, the sound was horrific. None of these things were intentional, and injuries are common in wrestling. But it's been a rough season already, even though Davey's rocking it. He put in a lot of work over the summer and is a lot more confident and assertive on the mat.

Then comes today, omg. Big Orange is one of the most important tournaments of the year for us - lots of great competition, several of the schools we'll be up against for regionals, etc etc. So everyone's excited, despite the fact that it's Christmas break and it's disgustingly cold and rainy outside and the team had to be at school at 6:45 this morning.

Our 106 didn't make weight. He was .2 pounds over, even with the one pound allowance the wrestlers get at this point in the season. Walker is a big point scorer for us, so that sucked anyway to lose him.

During warm ups, Davey (who is 195, in case I haven't said that) was warming up with our 220 (Cameron), and Cameron threw Davey... and Davey landed on our 120 (Riley). I wasn't there for this, but everyone was like "it all happened in slow motion, and we all knew what was going to happen but couldn't stop it." Riley said he felt them hit him, and was shocked for a moment then fell, and then the pain came. So, we got to call for an ambulance before the tournament even started! Riley's foot is broken in multiple places, and the way he fell apparently bent his toes in a weird way and cracked the bone all the way across? Idk, his mom was trying to explain it to me when they came back to the tournament after the hospital. But he has to see an orthopedic surgeon on Wednesday to discuss possibly putting screws in his foot. Also, he's been a big placer for us and has wrestled for years, but now his season for this year is over.

Our 145 Zack got a concussion after his opponent pulled an illegal move.

And then there's Davey. Davey's goals for this year are to qualify for states (he was one spot away last year - he finished 5th in regionals and top 4 go to states) and to not get pinned. And he's done super well on not getting pinned - the matches he's lost so far he's mostly lost by points but he puts up a good fight and hangs in there for all 3 periods. So he's up against this kid who was a state qualifier last year, and who has a record for pinning people in the first minute of a match. Davey gets about halfway through the third round, and yeah he's losing like 11 to 4, but he's fighting, and his foot gets caught under the kid when he rolls and there's a pop and ughhhhh. Call the trainer. The worst part for Davey was that the pain (which was sudden and kinda widespread? like around his ankle and up his leg?) made him hyperventilate and so obviously that made everything worse. The coaches and the trainers are on the mat with him, and I can't hear what they're saying but I've got like six teenage boys all trying to hug me at one time (one of the kids who graduated last year but was in for the holiday so came to the tournament was on the other side of the mat and practically tripped over himself coming to hug me) even though I wasn't really upset b/c it's Davey. And also I was a little in shock. But apparently they asked him to wiggle his toes and he started freaking out like "I don't know! Are they still there?" So they get him over off the mat and have his foot propped up and checking it over and stuff, and the trainer and the coach decide it's probably just a sprain but recommend getting it checked out anyway. So I asked Davey if he wanted to go to urgent care and he goes "No, I have another match to wrestle!" He was so upset we wouldn't let him finish the night. (He lost that match by injury, and then because he couldn't wrestle again he lost his next match by medical default, so he's out of the tournament.) Xrays confirm it's just a sprain, but ughhhh. I could really do with a lot less excitement in my wrestling season!

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